Offboard SD Card wiring

since i need it off board i got me an SD card from Sparkfun, i have to admit a quite random pick i did there.
but it has some kind of different pinout (less contacts). i’ve looked at the mobo schematics but i’m still not sure what is really required.
(i think at least 6 individual cables?)
anybody made an offboard wiring yet or able to give me any advice here?
also, where do i start counting on the motherboard… leftmost pin is CS?